Monday, June 5
Friday, May 19
more wondering.......
My co-blogger is a very deep person, I respect him for that. But I would like to engage him in some meaningful dialogue. Hope the following can trigger his alternate views.
Refer to his post below :"are the ppl who run away and hid themself with other option the loser..? is it so hard to do whts told... yes it is, coz we are different, really..?"
Depends on what we are running away from. Some examples below.
1. You get a girl pregnant, and you run away from your responsibility. Does that make you a loser?
2. The country wants you to go to war. You go into hiding. Does that make you a loser?
3. A friend asks you to push some drugs for him. You refused. Does that make you a loser?
4. A friend wants to borrow $200 from you. You have the money, but choose not to lend him. Does that make you a loser?
5. Exams are coming. You know you wont do well. So you skip school and find excuses. Does that make you a loser?
6. You are sick. Your mum asks you to drink some terribly bitter chinese medicine. You quietly poured it down the sink. Does that make you a loser?
7. You tried to quit smoking. But you dont have the discipline to keep the resolution going. And you tell yourself that "it is not so easy". Does that make you a loser?
8. You are offered a job. But it is too far from your house. You reject the offer. Does that make you a loser?
There is no right or wrong for most of these questions. It depends on our priorities in life.
But it is good to weigh the options and consequences, seek advise from the wise ones, so that we can choose the more advantageous option.
P/S: The above is not meant to create strong emotions. Read with an open mind.
wongz
Refer to his post below :"are the ppl who run away and hid themself with other option the loser..? is it so hard to do whts told... yes it is, coz we are different, really..?"
Depends on what we are running away from. Some examples below.
1. You get a girl pregnant, and you run away from your responsibility. Does that make you a loser?
2. The country wants you to go to war. You go into hiding. Does that make you a loser?
3. A friend asks you to push some drugs for him. You refused. Does that make you a loser?
4. A friend wants to borrow $200 from you. You have the money, but choose not to lend him. Does that make you a loser?
5. Exams are coming. You know you wont do well. So you skip school and find excuses. Does that make you a loser?
6. You are sick. Your mum asks you to drink some terribly bitter chinese medicine. You quietly poured it down the sink. Does that make you a loser?
7. You tried to quit smoking. But you dont have the discipline to keep the resolution going. And you tell yourself that "it is not so easy". Does that make you a loser?
8. You are offered a job. But it is too far from your house. You reject the offer. Does that make you a loser?
There is no right or wrong for most of these questions. It depends on our priorities in life.
But it is good to weigh the options and consequences, seek advise from the wise ones, so that we can choose the more advantageous option.
P/S: The above is not meant to create strong emotions. Read with an open mind.
wongz
Sunday, May 14
still wondering..
life..still now a illusion...a never ending road, a long path, will death really end it, or will it be even longer, still a big mistake to even live here.
seem like so , you just cant run away from faith, everyone is just so different.
we live doing and work for the same things and yet so different, is an illusion that it seem the same, everytime , when you make a mistake what will you do , you ask yourself , what to do.
most of the time we just escape it and never dare to look back and try , is there really a mistake , can it be learn , why , why not just learn from it . but the truth line is that wether , is it really a mistake in the first place, the problem is that u choose to do it in the first place . am i very sure there is another way , cant it be the only way.
when ppl ask one else to do a thing, why are there ppl who refuse, are the ppl who run away and hid themself with other option the loser..? is it so hard to do whts told... yes it is, coz we are different, really..?
just give me a chance to go with death.. yes, i will willingly follow...i just want to take a look how big death is, how long death is , painful death is , just how , what the hell is death.. pls take me there let me know, the 7 sins and love, thats the only thing i look back at , sins are not bad.. they are good , we feel good and we want more, why is wanting more things a sins , the system dont control us...we do , or is it so.. i believe that in such a big world out there, there are ppl watching us, and controling us... love.... just so hard to understand...family love, friendship love , muture love, love...just love..isit... ?? one alway have to give in more than the other..why not neutual ..maybe it just cant.. like i say... give and take. but i dont care about this, i just like being in love.. is the only thing we share the same..love..that is..i just wanna give and be loved...
hope i can..even if i cant, i just really wish that everything could just be nothing...so no one will suffer the pain ...of life...just nothing..plain emptyness...not even god exist...just nothing, not even the black hole...nothing ..nothing at all...
seem like so , you just cant run away from faith, everyone is just so different.
we live doing and work for the same things and yet so different, is an illusion that it seem the same, everytime , when you make a mistake what will you do , you ask yourself , what to do.
most of the time we just escape it and never dare to look back and try , is there really a mistake , can it be learn , why , why not just learn from it . but the truth line is that wether , is it really a mistake in the first place, the problem is that u choose to do it in the first place . am i very sure there is another way , cant it be the only way.
when ppl ask one else to do a thing, why are there ppl who refuse, are the ppl who run away and hid themself with other option the loser..? is it so hard to do whts told... yes it is, coz we are different, really..?
just give me a chance to go with death.. yes, i will willingly follow...i just want to take a look how big death is, how long death is , painful death is , just how , what the hell is death.. pls take me there let me know, the 7 sins and love, thats the only thing i look back at , sins are not bad.. they are good , we feel good and we want more, why is wanting more things a sins , the system dont control us...we do , or is it so.. i believe that in such a big world out there, there are ppl watching us, and controling us... love.... just so hard to understand...family love, friendship love , muture love, love...just love..isit... ?? one alway have to give in more than the other..why not neutual ..maybe it just cant.. like i say... give and take. but i dont care about this, i just like being in love.. is the only thing we share the same..love..that is..i just wanna give and be loved...
hope i can..even if i cant, i just really wish that everything could just be nothing...so no one will suffer the pain ...of life...just nothing..plain emptyness...not even god exist...just nothing, not even the black hole...nothing ..nothing at all...
Wednesday, May 10
Tuesday, May 9
''half naked'' the story part 1
hey hey ..hi to all back at last this time i am here to tell a story ..a humannistic story..like the days of our life...ty for ur support..
so many things revolving around me lately ...life still sucks i say...but at least , there is one more hand , one more eye , one more nose , one more ear , one more say , and my one only love ...
thing arent alway seen and being heard as the way we want and think ..illusion is one thing that proven so . truth to be told..no one ever live to tell wht death is and wht is it all about..no one..and never ever. Around this fuckup world, are all systems... they are like a game... but u dont really have an extra life, u dont have super powers....just u urself , is now or never..death or life... going through and take this road wont be easy , never will it.
everyone have a different road to walk , we learn in different ways..we feel the different emotions..but we share the same..the same joy.! and happyness..that itself is enough for ppl like me...i dont wanna much..i dont really care much...my past hunt me deep.
"life is short make it fast" i use to say this alot..in my past ..and nv really listen to the wispers around me..i just nv seem to get the meaning about it...i was stupid back then. i feel like a zombie , eat, shit , and sleep..life around me is biter than any beans.. blood is thicker than water to say..i feel so homeless ..like the wind could just slice me through..
remembering the day i fainted...because of my jackass acts , causes me to flush myself down the toilet..i begun to think ..i can tell u the most happy and top most perfect of my story was to faint and never look at the world again, i have no guts , no friends , no one..just alone , iam just a pain in the ass. in that black paradise ... i hear a voice .. hey '' wakeup, u aint alone'' i was curious even though i was suffering..humans nature i would said.. i pull myself together . i blink an eye .. i saw....i saw the most beautiful ... those eyes.. like my..... i shut my eyes and think..whether..they are true..am i dead..? i question myself ... but just like any other humans...i too have sin... i look ... open my eyes , as i open.. i saw her... she have the same eyes....
suddenly i feel sick..and butterflys flying in my stomach..dont knw why ? iam so confuse.. i felt a warm at my heart ...she huged me , everythings going to be fine'' she said.
i cant describle .. the warm and love i had..been given...no one , no stranger had ever giving me a hug. i was happy and lost.
kelly ,her name that was , given to her by her grandmother..she live by the river , a blue , clear clean, nice lake... standing at the sides and just looking straight up , u can see the mountain that make this water alive , just so lovely to hear the river flowing slowy down the stream, ur thoughts will also flow down with it...
her parents are farmers.. not too poor , not too rich.. just enough for family .. she lives in a nice wooden , old but stable , cottage look house.. just the perfect house u can ever dream to have..
just so u must knw , like i say life is hard and not wht we think is it really is..
end of part 1
so many things revolving around me lately ...life still sucks i say...but at least , there is one more hand , one more eye , one more nose , one more ear , one more say , and my one only love ...
thing arent alway seen and being heard as the way we want and think ..illusion is one thing that proven so . truth to be told..no one ever live to tell wht death is and wht is it all about..no one..and never ever. Around this fuckup world, are all systems... they are like a game... but u dont really have an extra life, u dont have super powers....just u urself , is now or never..death or life... going through and take this road wont be easy , never will it.
everyone have a different road to walk , we learn in different ways..we feel the different emotions..but we share the same..the same joy.! and happyness..that itself is enough for ppl like me...i dont wanna much..i dont really care much...my past hunt me deep.
"life is short make it fast" i use to say this alot..in my past ..and nv really listen to the wispers around me..i just nv seem to get the meaning about it...i was stupid back then. i feel like a zombie , eat, shit , and sleep..life around me is biter than any beans.. blood is thicker than water to say..i feel so homeless ..like the wind could just slice me through..
remembering the day i fainted...because of my jackass acts , causes me to flush myself down the toilet..i begun to think ..i can tell u the most happy and top most perfect of my story was to faint and never look at the world again, i have no guts , no friends , no one..just alone , iam just a pain in the ass. in that black paradise ... i hear a voice .. hey '' wakeup, u aint alone'' i was curious even though i was suffering..humans nature i would said.. i pull myself together . i blink an eye .. i saw....i saw the most beautiful ... those eyes.. like my..... i shut my eyes and think..whether..they are true..am i dead..? i question myself ... but just like any other humans...i too have sin... i look ... open my eyes , as i open.. i saw her... she have the same eyes....
suddenly i feel sick..and butterflys flying in my stomach..dont knw why ? iam so confuse.. i felt a warm at my heart ...she huged me , everythings going to be fine'' she said.
i cant describle .. the warm and love i had..been given...no one , no stranger had ever giving me a hug. i was happy and lost.
kelly ,her name that was , given to her by her grandmother..she live by the river , a blue , clear clean, nice lake... standing at the sides and just looking straight up , u can see the mountain that make this water alive , just so lovely to hear the river flowing slowy down the stream, ur thoughts will also flow down with it...
her parents are farmers.. not too poor , not too rich.. just enough for family .. she lives in a nice wooden , old but stable , cottage look house.. just the perfect house u can ever dream to have..
just so u must knw , like i say life is hard and not wht we think is it really is..
end of part 1
Tuesday, May 2
just for gag 2..
hahaha... just for gag
Saturday, April 1
tunnel of the five sense
i fell in dispair while walking down this small narrow, painful road, road of life...
slowy in pain i walk down the tunnel of life , is just so dark , i cant see ,i cant hear , i cant smell , i losted every of my senses...even touch..but i was wrong...walking down further , i felt hope..the hope of lonelyness , they have the same eyes as me...those lonesome eyes.
finally, those eyes..they kept me going. now that i found you..the tunnel isnt so dark anymore, coz i know that i have someone who is beside me, to take away the darkness and share the spark of life with, still the tunnel continues , hope to walk out this curse and sadness, i knw i will .
finally one day the , i can walk out this tunnel to see the joy on your face
slowy in pain i walk down the tunnel of life , is just so dark , i cant see ,i cant hear , i cant smell , i losted every of my senses...even touch..but i was wrong...walking down further , i felt hope..the hope of lonelyness , they have the same eyes as me...those lonesome eyes.
finally, those eyes..they kept me going. now that i found you..the tunnel isnt so dark anymore, coz i know that i have someone who is beside me, to take away the darkness and share the spark of life with, still the tunnel continues , hope to walk out this curse and sadness, i knw i will .
finally one day the , i can walk out this tunnel to see the joy on your face
Tuesday, March 21
Comment Box
I do not feel that the root of the problem is the comment box.... since there are still sms, msn, etc...
But for everyone of us, we do need to think of the consequences of what we write in a public domain like a blog.
Make sure we do not write:
1. "illegal" things that promotes racism, terrorism, pornographic etc,
2. things that hurt others' feelings,
3. private information about ourselves that we may regret revealing in the future.., etc etc..
Since we are on this topic, might as well advise each and everyone to be careful of what you capture using your camera or video, and also what you do in front of a web cam. There are web cam recorders which can record everything that you show others, without you knowing it.
The internet is an open field.
Do safeguard yourself wherever you can.
Imagine you are Tammi, how would you feel for the rest of your life?
wongz
But for everyone of us, we do need to think of the consequences of what we write in a public domain like a blog.
Make sure we do not write:
1. "illegal" things that promotes racism, terrorism, pornographic etc,
2. things that hurt others' feelings,
3. private information about ourselves that we may regret revealing in the future.., etc etc..
Since we are on this topic, might as well advise each and everyone to be careful of what you capture using your camera or video, and also what you do in front of a web cam. There are web cam recorders which can record everything that you show others, without you knowing it.
The internet is an open field.
Do safeguard yourself wherever you can.
Imagine you are Tammi, how would you feel for the rest of your life?
wongz
no..more...
i think the root to this problem is the comment box...now i finish want to throw it away for now..and i going to do something i like very soon..ur will find out soon
Sunday, March 19
winning a battle dont mean u won the war
ASK YOURSELF THIS QUESTIONS
knowing that what i say mean alot of bullshit to others..also knwing that is not like u all dont or never(or did you?) have and been through what i have done..or is it because it is hard for u all to accept the fact that i dont(or is wht iam doing now, really what i wanted) become like and think the same..no one knows(or is it??..someone may know).
sad to say i dont really wish and want to listen to any advice(or because iam just too stubborn to and want to live in my own world)..but i will keep it at heart, as nothing(really nothing??there must be something) is too late..just that life is short( aver+ 80 yearsold..really is that short??..animal lives is shorter , but do they mind..or rather do they noctice it).
life is a feedback loop to say,mostly everything u put in will be reflex by the out put (side effect) and it will jumps back to the core. often we(most of us) see the world blindly,we fill in the gaps so this world make sense and appears how we think it ought to be.(people will only change when they are ready)
here is a puzzle to prove abit..of a simple fact..that most of us sees the circle, but not within..or out of it....
"There is three misstakes in this sentence."
can u find them..??
(answer at the bottom)
can humans really be what they ought to be..is ur mind and thinking really who we are..if god made ur body..did he create your thinking and thoughts..if not, who are u in the first place to start with.
by now most of u will feel and say i am talking nosense and bullshit(is bull's shit really like wht i said..some things does not make sense but still we believe strongly in it)
in the past ....
humans want to fly, because birds can..and we did it..
humans want to comunicate with out moving to do so, because we are lazy...and we did it..
humans saw animals travel and move faster than them and making it easy, because we are lazy..and we did it..
humans want to swim deep in the oceans , because fishs can and we did it...
humans improve thier lives and make it easier to live we did it..but still why must we invent bombs and harmful weapons to kill each other (some say is to protect ourself..is it really so or just because u want to be stronger than other..??u still goin to die ,is just the matter of time)
mostly everything falls in a system..(or is it really true)even our emotions. is our brain that control us or our emotions..as we use less than 5%(even lesser)of our brain?? is it really the truth that ..wht will happen it we can use our whole brain..(who is the one that controls it..is it really ourself??) or we already use our whole brain ..just that we dont realise...
is prove really the truth to everything?? if bible was the truth..other religious will be fake..vice versa...if the universe.. is so big(is it the biggest??)then there must be super huamans ..or aliens smarter than us.., if it is true, than it is so that we(most of us) can only use 5%or lesser of our brain..
is there an end to knowing this universe?? will we ever get enough by it..how much more can we know and store it in our small little mind(or is it small and compact)
most things are better left unknow..if we know, wht different will it make or rather will it make any different. even when u die , will life continue...or u will get reborned...if sleeping is death then i shall die..now..but wht if its not..and wht for i want to die..or do i.. !?
can anyone answer me..??(or do i already know the anwers) if so..can u prove it..(is prove really wht i want..is it even the slightest truth) even if i knw..the true..wht more i can do and wht for.??will it make any different of point that the way others see me..?? do i really want that to happen..at all..still wht for and wht i can gain from it..iam still going to die..if others take my words ..i wont have any bad comment ...to start with..and i wont have to even write this...(will i..?)
surving..is the only key(or is it..??)to live. people in woodbridge..are they the crazy and insane one...and is that the real world ..or are we..the one in prison....??? by now..most of u will get real worry..for me..tell u the truth..be for i end this..the fact is that u are worrying for urself..because u cant answer the question...and u think u are always right..(maybe u are...but there is left too)
all i have now is this..and i just wanna taste what i come up with now..whether is sour,bitter,salty, or sweet..i just wanna to taste it..therefore i beg of u for alittle peace..(no harsh comment..or anything to do with studys..most of all others accecptable)
anwers for puzzle..
first there is a grammatical mistake-it should read, ''there are three mistakes'' second ''mistakes'' is misspelt. you could look forever for the third(or maybe not) mistakes inside the sentence; the third mistakes is there are only two mistakes in the sentence. you have to jump outside the sentence to see it. self-reference confounds logic, for if the sentence is correct then the sentence must be wrong. and so on...
knowing that what i say mean alot of bullshit to others..also knwing that is not like u all dont or never(or did you?) have and been through what i have done..or is it because it is hard for u all to accept the fact that i dont(or is wht iam doing now, really what i wanted) become like and think the same..no one knows(or is it??..someone may know).
sad to say i dont really wish and want to listen to any advice(or because iam just too stubborn to and want to live in my own world)..but i will keep it at heart, as nothing(really nothing??there must be something) is too late..just that life is short( aver+ 80 yearsold..really is that short??..animal lives is shorter , but do they mind..or rather do they noctice it).
life is a feedback loop to say,mostly everything u put in will be reflex by the out put (side effect) and it will jumps back to the core. often we(most of us) see the world blindly,we fill in the gaps so this world make sense and appears how we think it ought to be.(people will only change when they are ready)
here is a puzzle to prove abit..of a simple fact..that most of us sees the circle, but not within..or out of it....
"There is three misstakes in this sentence."
can u find them..??
(answer at the bottom)
can humans really be what they ought to be..is ur mind and thinking really who we are..if god made ur body..did he create your thinking and thoughts..if not, who are u in the first place to start with.
by now most of u will feel and say i am talking nosense and bullshit(is bull's shit really like wht i said..some things does not make sense but still we believe strongly in it)
in the past ....
humans want to fly, because birds can..and we did it..
humans want to comunicate with out moving to do so, because we are lazy...and we did it..
humans saw animals travel and move faster than them and making it easy, because we are lazy..and we did it..
humans want to swim deep in the oceans , because fishs can and we did it...
humans improve thier lives and make it easier to live we did it..but still why must we invent bombs and harmful weapons to kill each other (some say is to protect ourself..is it really so or just because u want to be stronger than other..??u still goin to die ,is just the matter of time)
mostly everything falls in a system..(or is it really true)even our emotions. is our brain that control us or our emotions..as we use less than 5%(even lesser)of our brain?? is it really the truth that ..wht will happen it we can use our whole brain..(who is the one that controls it..is it really ourself??) or we already use our whole brain ..just that we dont realise...
is prove really the truth to everything?? if bible was the truth..other religious will be fake..vice versa...if the universe.. is so big(is it the biggest??)then there must be super huamans ..or aliens smarter than us.., if it is true, than it is so that we(most of us) can only use 5%or lesser of our brain..
is there an end to knowing this universe?? will we ever get enough by it..how much more can we know and store it in our small little mind(or is it small and compact)
most things are better left unknow..if we know, wht different will it make or rather will it make any different. even when u die , will life continue...or u will get reborned...if sleeping is death then i shall die..now..but wht if its not..and wht for i want to die..or do i.. !?
can anyone answer me..??(or do i already know the anwers) if so..can u prove it..(is prove really wht i want..is it even the slightest truth) even if i knw..the true..wht more i can do and wht for.??will it make any different of point that the way others see me..?? do i really want that to happen..at all..still wht for and wht i can gain from it..iam still going to die..if others take my words ..i wont have any bad comment ...to start with..and i wont have to even write this...(will i..?)
surving..is the only key(or is it..??)to live. people in woodbridge..are they the crazy and insane one...and is that the real world ..or are we..the one in prison....??? by now..most of u will get real worry..for me..tell u the truth..be for i end this..the fact is that u are worrying for urself..because u cant answer the question...and u think u are always right..(maybe u are...but there is left too)
all i have now is this..and i just wanna taste what i come up with now..whether is sour,bitter,salty, or sweet..i just wanna to taste it..therefore i beg of u for alittle peace..(no harsh comment..or anything to do with studys..most of all others accecptable)
anwers for puzzle..
first there is a grammatical mistake-it should read, ''there are three mistakes'' second ''mistakes'' is misspelt. you could look forever for the third(or maybe not) mistakes inside the sentence; the third mistakes is there are only two mistakes in the sentence. you have to jump outside the sentence to see it. self-reference confounds logic, for if the sentence is correct then the sentence must be wrong. and so on...
Tuesday, March 14
still u all dont understand
Still u all dont understand
very long...really quite long since i blog almost forgot that i own a blog..hahaha...ok get started.
really very angry..very pissed off....by teachers in my school.....not all, but most , i knw people around me care for me and everything, but i have aready lost the sense of care toward people and myself although the care is still hidden and left forgotten some where in my heart.
i i must tell ur all something..this is to all the teachers who read my blog and familys members and people who are older than me..and think they are fucking always correct...i must say. u are wrong..to think that ur older therefore ur always fucking right..not darn it..i dont care how long u live and how much more salt u eat more than me..
secondly..wht i say and talk in my blog is just for people like me and you to recall the things and to remind u thats all..and i just like to shout my comments and thinking into a post..coz even if i talk to others i feel abit like talking to the wall, coz no one take me for real..only when thing really happened then my help is needed...
i shall tell ur all one thing..dont thing that learning psychology can make u understand another person fully..no there is no way..the basic of psychology is to learn the behaviour.how they react and why they react..nv in the whole history of mankind can a human really and totally , fully understand each other..if so there wont be war or worst war would flow this world.
till this point some of u may not even sightly agree with me..is ok to me i know the fact , some of u dont..must make others to be the same as u, it is very wrong to do so, u have ur on life to take care , u can only comment on others life..u cant change the sightest bit..u dont live for him/her
http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=life go to this site to see the meaning of life or is it the real meaning..u sure..or is...life is just a word...
alot of u are being brainwash ...and u dont even realise it...the main thing abit life is to surive thats all...nothing else, money is not important at all we are just being brainwash to think that it is important...u got to think pass the system , and than u can beat the system. but to me i don care much , as long i live life happy and is able to surive is fine with me..
destiny and fate ...all of confusion about this two word...to a english teacher it mean...just meaning and explanation..wrong ..think pass the system...and ask urself who the pioner of the words...u will get it wrong...look at the most popular book the da vince code...what so nice about the book u may ask..got read and u knw why..and for now i shall leave u wondering aorund in my deep blue ocean..
very long...really quite long since i blog almost forgot that i own a blog..hahaha...ok get started.
really very angry..very pissed off....by teachers in my school.....not all, but most , i knw people around me care for me and everything, but i have aready lost the sense of care toward people and myself although the care is still hidden and left forgotten some where in my heart.
i i must tell ur all something..this is to all the teachers who read my blog and familys members and people who are older than me..and think they are fucking always correct...i must say. u are wrong..to think that ur older therefore ur always fucking right..not darn it..i dont care how long u live and how much more salt u eat more than me..
secondly..wht i say and talk in my blog is just for people like me and you to recall the things and to remind u thats all..and i just like to shout my comments and thinking into a post..coz even if i talk to others i feel abit like talking to the wall, coz no one take me for real..only when thing really happened then my help is needed...
i shall tell ur all one thing..dont thing that learning psychology can make u understand another person fully..no there is no way..the basic of psychology is to learn the behaviour.how they react and why they react..nv in the whole history of mankind can a human really and totally , fully understand each other..if so there wont be war or worst war would flow this world.
till this point some of u may not even sightly agree with me..is ok to me i know the fact , some of u dont..must make others to be the same as u, it is very wrong to do so, u have ur on life to take care , u can only comment on others life..u cant change the sightest bit..u dont live for him/her
http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=life go to this site to see the meaning of life or is it the real meaning..u sure..or is...life is just a word...
alot of u are being brainwash ...and u dont even realise it...the main thing abit life is to surive thats all...nothing else, money is not important at all we are just being brainwash to think that it is important...u got to think pass the system , and than u can beat the system. but to me i don care much , as long i live life happy and is able to surive is fine with me..
destiny and fate ...all of confusion about this two word...to a english teacher it mean...just meaning and explanation..wrong ..think pass the system...and ask urself who the pioner of the words...u will get it wrong...look at the most popular book the da vince code...what so nice about the book u may ask..got read and u knw why..and for now i shall leave u wondering aorund in my deep blue ocean..
Monday, February 27
tammy..!
tammy..!
woah...singapore getting..more..open...sia...and more "kep poh" .
dont really pity the girls lor...cause hor..if say the guy wanna take the video hor.. the girl can stop him ma...and say don wanna ma...lol..i think they both horny devils...the guy f**K till like so song..and the girl also like enjoying it lor....=.=""
but..seriouly...the person who mass send the video..is a f**ker la..but cant really blame him/her lor..just maybe the person dont like tammy...ba.. but tammy is quite nice looking lor...(future porn star..hahaha) i also hear that the video is selling in peneng malaysia for singapore 5 dollars
other than this tammy incident ..someone recive a bluetooth msg ..of a gangband video..1 guy 3 girls..and one of the girl is underage..or..seem so..cause she got wear sch uniform ....wah...lol...nowdays people getting more open minded
but..infact it is rather common in united state...there people are just more open and they get to see porn tv shows at night..singapore..maybe too strict therefore, cause singaporeans to hold the arouse feeling to themself..we may end up like japanese ..but aleast they knw how to realise and relxed..in their free time and let lose themself..unlike..singaporeans lor...
u see dont let children see porn and no too much or no sex education...or...taking sex as a forbbiden fruit even to speak of it..now u see..curious..or hormy..or dont knw wht thay think lor..go taped down their sex life...lol..make till they themself so pai sai...and the whole world knowing...
woah...singapore getting..more..open...sia...and more "kep poh" .
dont really pity the girls lor...cause hor..if say the guy wanna take the video hor.. the girl can stop him ma...and say don wanna ma...lol..i think they both horny devils...the guy f**K till like so song..and the girl also like enjoying it lor....=.=""
but..seriouly...the person who mass send the video..is a f**ker la..but cant really blame him/her lor..just maybe the person dont like tammy...ba.. but tammy is quite nice looking lor...(future porn star..hahaha) i also hear that the video is selling in peneng malaysia for singapore 5 dollars
other than this tammy incident ..someone recive a bluetooth msg ..of a gangband video..1 guy 3 girls..and one of the girl is underage..or..seem so..cause she got wear sch uniform ....wah...lol...nowdays people getting more open minded
but..infact it is rather common in united state...there people are just more open and they get to see porn tv shows at night..singapore..maybe too strict therefore, cause singaporeans to hold the arouse feeling to themself..we may end up like japanese ..but aleast they knw how to realise and relxed..in their free time and let lose themself..unlike..singaporeans lor...
u see dont let children see porn and no too much or no sex education...or...taking sex as a forbbiden fruit even to speak of it..now u see..curious..or hormy..or dont knw wht thay think lor..go taped down their sex life...lol..make till they themself so pai sai...and the whole world knowing...
Friday, February 24
Humility
Ya jianwen,... I didnt read the book, but I attended a 2-day course on system thinking by an american trainer. I agree with what you said. Like what I said in my previous blog, we cant finish talking about system thinking in one blog alone...so.. what i didnt say doesnt mean that I am telling you are wrong... its just that I didnt say.
Regarding your point "Is human to be not humble". I disagree with what you say. Whether you are humble or not firstly depends on your upbringing and the environment that you are brought up in.
There are many great men in the world (dead or alive), and they are all humble people.
But there are many many more other people who are not humble.
To cut the long story short, the majority of the people in the world are not humble. Your choice is, do you want to take the effort to be humble, so that you can improve, or do you want to follow the majority of the people in the world, and be contented with what they are?
Even simon cowell (americal idol) used the word "humility (means to be humble)" on some of the contestants. He feels that, if you are not humble enough, you will not be a great performer, and if you are not humble enough, you are not fit to be an idol. He said that, in this level of high competition, good will not be good enough, you need to be great.
Those were his comments.
Even the ministers used the word "humble" on the late S. Rajaratnam, who passed away two days ago. He was the minister who wrote our national pledge.
The thing is, most people in the world are not having the right attitude, because they choose the easy way out. But, do you want to follow this group of people, just because the majority are like that? Or do you want to look up to the great men in the world, and learn from them?
We talk more over dinner.
wongz
Regarding your point "Is human to be not humble". I disagree with what you say. Whether you are humble or not firstly depends on your upbringing and the environment that you are brought up in.
There are many great men in the world (dead or alive), and they are all humble people.
But there are many many more other people who are not humble.
To cut the long story short, the majority of the people in the world are not humble. Your choice is, do you want to take the effort to be humble, so that you can improve, or do you want to follow the majority of the people in the world, and be contented with what they are?
Even simon cowell (americal idol) used the word "humility (means to be humble)" on some of the contestants. He feels that, if you are not humble enough, you will not be a great performer, and if you are not humble enough, you are not fit to be an idol. He said that, in this level of high competition, good will not be good enough, you need to be great.
Those were his comments.
Even the ministers used the word "humble" on the late S. Rajaratnam, who passed away two days ago. He was the minister who wrote our national pledge.
The thing is, most people in the world are not having the right attitude, because they choose the easy way out. But, do you want to follow this group of people, just because the majority are like that? Or do you want to look up to the great men in the world, and learn from them?
We talk more over dinner.
wongz
Thursday, February 23
add systems thinking
cher i bet u haven read the book lor...u just see the surface of system thinking..only.. system thinking goes beyond logic. because people are not always logical. systems thinkingsees beyond isolated events to the deeper patterns and connections...therefore a single word can be remaked to a thousand word with system thinking.. a picture paints a thousand word..but how many word is there to paint a picture.... i doubt u guys may understand.. bt before i go this for u guys..
"no man is an island entire of itself;every man is a part of the main. any man's death diminishes me because iam involved in mankind, and therefore never send to know for whom the bells tolls; it tolls for thee."
by: john donne (1572-1631)
some funny tv ads for u guys
http://www.kontraband.com/show/show.asp?ID=3254&NEXTID=0&PREVID=3239&DISPLAYORDER=20060211164637&CAT=tvads&NSFW=0&page=1&genre=0&rating=nsfw_sfw
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"no man is an island entire of itself;every man is a part of the main. any man's death diminishes me because iam involved in mankind, and therefore never send to know for whom the bells tolls; it tolls for thee."
by: john donne (1572-1631)
some funny tv ads for u guys
http://www.kontraband.com/show/show.asp?ID=3254&NEXTID=0&PREVID=3239&DISPLAYORDER=20060211164637&CAT=tvads&NSFW=0&page=1&genre=0&rating=nsfw_sfw
http://www.kontraband.com/show/show.asp?ID=3232&NEXTID=0&PREVID=3255&DISPLAYORDER=20060206120344&CAT=tvads&NSFW=0&page=1&genre=0&rating=nsfw_sfw
Tuesday, February 21
Add on to System Thinking.....
Didnt expect jw to come up with such a deep topic.. system thinking.. I am starting to feel that he is more mature than most of you other people...
anyway.. there are a lot of systems everywhere, but not all of these systems are working well within itself... means.. no system thinking.
I use jw's examples to elaborate...
The body is made up of many organs. Can you imagine what will happen when the brain tells the heart :"sorry i busy now.. can i take in your blood later?" or... the intestines tell the stomach :"eh brother, can you send your waste to somewhere else?"...
Sorry jw.. system thinking is not about thinking out of the box.. but thinking out of the box is something that the system can do in order to achieve success.
Many organisations have Visions and Missions, Philosophies, Motto, etc.. thats to guide everyone in the company to think and work towards the same goal... and when everyone selflessly move towards the same goal.. that is system thinking.
Can u imagine a football team that does not apply system thinking? Then some players will want the ball to themselves.. they wont pass it... some players may want to show off, they always attack without coordination or help from other players etc.. every player in the team has their own agenda, and the outcome will be disastrous.
Can u imagine a hospital without system thinking?
To achieve system thinking, the organisation need to do a lot of 'brain-washing' so that every one move towards the same goal....
Of cos.. there are too much to talk about system thinking.. one blog alone is not enough.. so I will just stop here.. for those of you who are still studying.. system thinking can apply to you and your friends... whether you encourage each other to study hard and all do well.. or you keep cho cho each other to go and club and slack.. then everyone die together.
wongz
anyway.. there are a lot of systems everywhere, but not all of these systems are working well within itself... means.. no system thinking.
I use jw's examples to elaborate...
The body is made up of many organs. Can you imagine what will happen when the brain tells the heart :"sorry i busy now.. can i take in your blood later?" or... the intestines tell the stomach :"eh brother, can you send your waste to somewhere else?"...
Sorry jw.. system thinking is not about thinking out of the box.. but thinking out of the box is something that the system can do in order to achieve success.
Many organisations have Visions and Missions, Philosophies, Motto, etc.. thats to guide everyone in the company to think and work towards the same goal... and when everyone selflessly move towards the same goal.. that is system thinking.
Can u imagine a football team that does not apply system thinking? Then some players will want the ball to themselves.. they wont pass it... some players may want to show off, they always attack without coordination or help from other players etc.. every player in the team has their own agenda, and the outcome will be disastrous.
Can u imagine a hospital without system thinking?
To achieve system thinking, the organisation need to do a lot of 'brain-washing' so that every one move towards the same goal....
Of cos.. there are too much to talk about system thinking.. one blog alone is not enough.. so I will just stop here.. for those of you who are still studying.. system thinking can apply to you and your friends... whether you encourage each other to study hard and all do well.. or you keep cho cho each other to go and club and slack.. then everyone die together.
wongz
Monday, February 20
our own thinking , and others thinking....system thinking links it all
our own thinking , and others thinking....system thinking links it all
recently i read a book on system thinking...and now i feel that i am not only the one who think like this... wht is system think..?? because in this world...everything is under the system ...like our body for example...our heart pumps the blood to every part of the body and when the body part moves it pumps back the heart , and when u breath in air..u will breath out carbon dioxide...just every part of our body works by itself..in their different ways, and sort of join together to work as a whole to m ake the body work..
just the same as our society and this world surive by systems , if system is not maked this world will crash and fall apart, like your body when one part dont function...u will fall sick and ill...and u have to wait for the part of ur body to recover and then the system can go again and function properly...
sysytem thinking is how can u think out of the box ...meaning not to be single minded and be more open to others so that u are able to think of more thinks and be more creative and think of the thing others arent able to think and not usually will think ..so that u can solve thing faster with more option ...this is system thinking..
recently i read a book on system thinking...and now i feel that i am not only the one who think like this... wht is system think..?? because in this world...everything is under the system ...like our body for example...our heart pumps the blood to every part of the body and when the body part moves it pumps back the heart , and when u breath in air..u will breath out carbon dioxide...just every part of our body works by itself..in their different ways, and sort of join together to work as a whole to m ake the body work..
just the same as our society and this world surive by systems , if system is not maked this world will crash and fall apart, like your body when one part dont function...u will fall sick and ill...and u have to wait for the part of ur body to recover and then the system can go again and function properly...
sysytem thinking is how can u think out of the box ...meaning not to be single minded and be more open to others so that u are able to think of more thinks and be more creative and think of the thing others arent able to think and not usually will think ..so that u can solve thing faster with more option ...this is system thinking..
Saturday, February 11
Monday, February 6
no point starting school later
u know..
when we had holiday remedial at 9am, there are late comers, when you meet your friends for movie at 4pm, someone will be late... when the wedding dinner starts at 7.30pm, people come at 8.30pm...it's not about the timing... it's about the attitude.
a few schools tried starting school at 8am.. one school even tried starting at 8.30am... but now they reverted back to 7.30am. No prizes for guessing the reason.. cos these schools found out that there were more late comers after they changed to a later start time..
One reason was having to fight for bus space and mrt space with the working people..and the traffic is much slower after 7.30am so u take more time to travel on the road..and end up waking up almost the same time as before......not to mention that the usual late comers will still come late.
It's good to read the forum page in the straits times, but often you find that those who make noise first are those who are ignorant.
We should instead pay more attention to those people who reply to these people who complained... these people usually make more sense.
Good luck to those getting O level results this friday... but then again, like jw said.. you get what you planted.
wz
when we had holiday remedial at 9am, there are late comers, when you meet your friends for movie at 4pm, someone will be late... when the wedding dinner starts at 7.30pm, people come at 8.30pm...it's not about the timing... it's about the attitude.
a few schools tried starting school at 8am.. one school even tried starting at 8.30am... but now they reverted back to 7.30am. No prizes for guessing the reason.. cos these schools found out that there were more late comers after they changed to a later start time..
One reason was having to fight for bus space and mrt space with the working people..and the traffic is much slower after 7.30am so u take more time to travel on the road..and end up waking up almost the same time as before......not to mention that the usual late comers will still come late.
It's good to read the forum page in the straits times, but often you find that those who make noise first are those who are ignorant.
We should instead pay more attention to those people who reply to these people who complained... these people usually make more sense.
Good luck to those getting O level results this friday... but then again, like jw said.. you get what you planted.
wz
sch start later...pls.!!!
sch start later...pls>!!!!
quite long nv blog le..dont have the chance...first of all..sorry wongzai...for the hair thing..i did go to the salon , but it is very pack, its fully book , they got no time for me....and i am lazy to go other places to cut...my fault..i apologise....
ok get back to the topic...there is this article i read abt 2 weeks ago, but i dont hav the time to blog....and abit lazy as i need to do my journal..so i wrote it in my journal instead..therefore i going share with u guys...although..most of u are waiting for olevel result but still i think it is useful.
for those of u who dont bother to read THE STRAIT TIMES newspaper ....let me just tell u that there is a page call FORUM under the HOME section..i think it is gd cause it is one way for singaporeans to be open and share the views of neccsery topic and life lesson , from there u can relize the stupidness and patheticness of true human beings...haiz...but u cant blame them as they all think differenly...no one can truly and really understand the other person feelings and thoughs.
i happen to read abt this person mother complaining abt his/her children, not getting enough sleep for sch, most or i would say all of the sch in singapore start sch very early....most sch require student to report to the assembly hall by 730, lets say u take 30min to go sch on a bus..and u need 30 mins to prepare urself and have breakfast in the morning...and maybe we can add sometime so u can drag on the bed when u snooze the alarm, lets say 10 min ...total 1hour and 10 mins and u minus 730 it means u have to wake up at abt 620am...
wah....lets say u sleep as early as possible around 9++ i say...u would not sleep straight away..so count 10pm ba we should be asleep by then..so u only sleep 9 hours ...is not enough to replenish the lost of enegry u use up in the day...., there is a saying that humans use or more likely sleeping half of their life away (true i agree).
...is it correct..or wrong i lets u decide..some people...(maybe people like wongzai) would think and believe that its all abt self-discipline..not to say i dont have self -discipline (i have a sin ...which is sloth for sure.hahaha))..but think in this way...u cant force..a plant to grow..and bear fruit..if it is not a fruit tree
....u plant apple seed u get apple tree as simlpy as that..so wht for humans wanna make life so fucking complicated..how stupid humans being is..true it does make life much more challenging...wht for , listen and hear the nature's wisper....
catch my next post soon ..next week topic "kindness rain" and some more jokes..and little links...just for laugh
jw
quite long nv blog le..dont have the chance...first of all..sorry wongzai...for the hair thing..i did go to the salon , but it is very pack, its fully book , they got no time for me....and i am lazy to go other places to cut...my fault..i apologise....
ok get back to the topic...there is this article i read abt 2 weeks ago, but i dont hav the time to blog....and abit lazy as i need to do my journal..so i wrote it in my journal instead..therefore i going share with u guys...although..most of u are waiting for olevel result but still i think it is useful.
for those of u who dont bother to read THE STRAIT TIMES newspaper ....let me just tell u that there is a page call FORUM under the HOME section..i think it is gd cause it is one way for singaporeans to be open and share the views of neccsery topic and life lesson , from there u can relize the stupidness and patheticness of true human beings...haiz...but u cant blame them as they all think differenly...no one can truly and really understand the other person feelings and thoughs.
i happen to read abt this person mother complaining abt his/her children, not getting enough sleep for sch, most or i would say all of the sch in singapore start sch very early....most sch require student to report to the assembly hall by 730, lets say u take 30min to go sch on a bus..and u need 30 mins to prepare urself and have breakfast in the morning...and maybe we can add sometime so u can drag on the bed when u snooze the alarm, lets say 10 min ...total 1hour and 10 mins and u minus 730 it means u have to wake up at abt 620am...
wah....lets say u sleep as early as possible around 9++ i say...u would not sleep straight away..so count 10pm ba we should be asleep by then..so u only sleep 9 hours ...is not enough to replenish the lost of enegry u use up in the day...., there is a saying that humans use or more likely sleeping half of their life away (true i agree).
...is it correct..or wrong i lets u decide..some people...(maybe people like wongzai) would think and believe that its all abt self-discipline..not to say i dont have self -discipline (i have a sin ...which is sloth for sure.hahaha))..but think in this way...u cant force..a plant to grow..and bear fruit..if it is not a fruit tree
....u plant apple seed u get apple tree as simlpy as that..so wht for humans wanna make life so fucking complicated..how stupid humans being is..true it does make life much more challenging...wht for , listen and hear the nature's wisper....
catch my next post soon ..next week topic "kindness rain" and some more jokes..and little links...just for laugh
jw
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