more wondering.......

My co-blogger is a very deep person, I respect him for that. But I would like to engage him in some meaningful dialogue. Hope the following can trigger his alternate views.

Refer to his post below :"are the ppl who run away and hid themself with other option the loser..? is it so hard to do whts told... yes it is, coz we are different, really..?"

Depends on what we are running away from. Some examples below.

1. You get a girl pregnant, and you run away from your responsibility. Does that make you a loser?

2. The country wants you to go to war. You go into hiding. Does that make you a loser?

3. A friend asks you to push some drugs for him. You refused. Does that make you a loser?

4. A friend wants to borrow $200 from you. You have the money, but choose not to lend him. Does that make you a loser?

5. Exams are coming. You know you wont do well. So you skip school and find excuses. Does that make you a loser?

6. You are sick. Your mum asks you to drink some terribly bitter chinese medicine. You quietly poured it down the sink. Does that make you a loser?

7. You tried to quit smoking. But you dont have the discipline to keep the resolution going. And you tell yourself that "it is not so easy". Does that make you a loser?

8. You are offered a job. But it is too far from your house. You reject the offer. Does that make you a loser?

There is no right or wrong for most of these questions. It depends on our priorities in life.
But it is good to weigh the options and consequences, seek advise from the wise ones, so that we can choose the more advantageous option.

P/S: The above is not meant to create strong emotions. Read with an open mind.

wongz